A Wanna-Be-Fit’s Confession

Okay, okay, I have a confession to make.

In my strong desire to be fit, I began cutting out junk food from my shopping list and whenever possible, would encourage the kids to substitute starchy, fried snacks for healthier options. And to set the example, I tried to choose the healthiest foods I could lay my hands on at home.

Who’d ever think that this wanna-be-fit lady would succumb and backslide? Well, THAT IS WHAT HAPPENED TO ME TODAY.

I had just come from National Book Store along Annapolis St. and took the shortcut through the tiny gate-on-the-wall beside Teriyaki Boy, crossed over to Theater Mall and was about to walk toward V-Mall when the very strong scent of french fries wafted towards me.

Now, normally at McDo, I can resist this item. But today was something else. Turns out there is a Belgian Fries stand at the corner, right beside The Big Chill (for those familiar with the Greenhills complex).

Before I knew it, I found myself ordering a large helping of Belgian fries with roasted garlic dip. And I must say, that was so far THE BEST fries and dip I have ever tasted!!!! WHY DO UNHEALTHY FOODS HAVE TO TASTE SO GOOD??????

Never mind if it was cooked in artery-clogging oil. This “pimple food” (as I would refer to it whenever my fries-addict daughter bought them) was just too much to resist!

I am actually still deciding whether I regret my earlier action or not……

10 Ways to Commit to Fitness

There is an article written by a certain Kelli Calabrese dated Jan. 15, 2007 wherein she names 10 ways to commit to fitness. I am reproducing excerpts from that article here as a constant reminder (most of all to myself) that fitness ISN’T A FAD. It has to be A LIFESTYLE.

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1. Project into the future and visualize how you will look and feel in three months if continue on the path you are on right now. Then visualize in detail how you will look and feel in three months if you begin a regular exercise program today. Keep the future in the front of your mind.

2. Figure out what matters most to you. If you truly want to have a fit body, cut out thoughts of the old you. The past does not equal the future. You can only affect the present decisions you make. Your body is an amazing organism that responds to both positive and negative stimulus (exercise or sedentary lifestyle) every day. The choice is completely yours. Exercise is not something anyone can do for you.

3. Have commitment in areas that matter the most. If your health and fitness are a priority to you, keep you exercise appointments the same way you would keep a doctors appointment or a parent teacher conference. Know you are worth the 20 to 60 minutes you take for exercise. Keep fitness high on your priority list.

4. Catch yourself before you steer away. For example, if you miss one workout, don’t make it two. Immediately plan to get in your next exercise session regardless of life’s events. You will feel so much better if you do, versus the guilt you will carry around if you don’t exercise. When two missed sessions becomes three, the weeks then become months, making it more challenging to build momentum again.

5. Look for evidence that your workouts are working. Notice that you are moving better, posture is improved, you are feeling less bloated, pants are getting loose, energy is up, metabolism is kicking in and you are attaining a firmer, fitter more defined body. Continue to reinforce the positive results by engaging in regular exercise.

6. No matter how far “gone” you feel, get up and get moving! It doesn’t matter that you have not exercised in weeks, months or years or that you had three slices of pizza and chocolate cake for dinner last night. What matters is that every day you have a new opportunity to make improvements in your body. It’s never too late. Even at 90 years old, you can build muscle and get stronger.

7. Commit without judgment. This is not a race or a competition. This is your life. Do your very best each workout and each meal. Discipline is an important success building component. Just the fact that you are getting up and exercising even if some days are not as intense as others is both important and effective.

8. Be true to yourself about your lack of commitment. You are only fooling yourself if you are justifying missed exercise sessions. You make the decision to exercise (or not to) emotionally and then justify it logically. Of course your life is full and demanding, but wouldn’t you be better able to handle all of life’s events in a fit and strong body?

9. When you miss an exercise session, it affects other people! I’ll say that again!!! When you miss an exercise session, it affects other people. When you don’t exercise, the rest of your day, you have guilt on your shoulders. You will then feel guilty or even angry with yourself. Since your mind can only hold one thought at a time, that anger and guilt reflect your actions throughout your day. Maybe your husband, child or co-worker gets to feel or see the end result of your not exercising. Maybe it comes out at the drive-thru or in a bar after work. On the other hand, performing your exercise routine can have very positive effects on your entire day and everyone in it.

10. Missing your workout creates darkness in your life. That darkness expands, disempowers and grows. It disempowers you and pushes your energy down. Some people get so far pushed down that they need medication. Coming back to your senses and getting your body moving is always the positive way to turn your body and life around.

Kelli Calabrese, MS, CSCS, 2004 Personal Trainer of the Year, is an exercise physiologist, personal trainer, lifestyle coach and certified nutrition specialist. She is committed to helping people make health, fitness and wellness a permanent and positive part of their lives. Kelli is the author of “Feminine, Firm & Fit — Building a Lean Strong Body in 12 weeks.” For more information about Kelli, go to www.KelliCalabrese.com or e-mail Kelli@KelliCalabrese.com.